How It all Happens In Real Life 5/5 (8)

I have really been putting into action many of the points you brought up in your plan. I have always been affectionate with my wife so I have a leg up on that already. L (wife) has been really do you say it.....NOT too nervous about how things are progressing. Enjoy the process is something I am really putting into action.

As we go forward with this it is becoming clear that she and I both want a connection with any man she plays with. It just brings depth and quality to the experience. There is something so enticing about knowing the man who is fucking your wife for me. And for her it is about a connection and a level of comfort from that connection.

The gentleman (who is [...] years younger than her) also seems to want a connection. His Kasidie profile says as much. He gave us a glowing review on Kasidie about [...]. That got a smile from her and I. We have chatted at length about her ongoing texting with her new friend. She is enjoying their banter and flirting. She likes him as a person.

We have also talked at length about whether or not her getting involved with him puts our relationship at risk. I am 100 percent confident that it DOES NOT. The fact that his visits would be fairly infrequent and would allow the space for both her and I to slowly enjoy the process and the space for her to recharge sexually between visits from him. So knowing my wife as I do and having confidence in the depth of our relationship I am good with going forward. Really nice to be able to say to each other "anytime you want to stop let me know" and mean it.

So my previously "I'm monogamous" wife has seen a bit of life from another angle. And she is intrigued. Their text messages they exchange are achingly tempting. Last Friday we had an hour to kill so we did some Christmas shopping. Walking by Victoria's Secret we headed in and bought some sexy thongs and bras. We have done this quite often over the last 3-4 months.

On the way out, holding her hand, I said, "I know we have played the whole what if this is for your lover thing before but this seems so real, so sexy". Within a few minutes she got a text from him and she replied with "what is your favorite color of lingerie, cause I'm shopping...and you know.....just wanted to be ready". HOLY SMOKES.........Hand in hand we sat and awaited his response. Looks like we will be doing some more shopping there for him. Possible soon.

Really working hard to not smother my wife my sexual advances. I want this woman BADLY right now. And do not want to smother her. After making love/fucking for 2 weeks straight (one day off) we are going to abstain for a few days to let it build. He may be back in town this weekend or maybe next weekend. He told her that he does not want to rush her at all. that really helped her.

At that point I may need your guidance on how to approach soothing her nerves. She keeps telling me that "she needs to be in charge and she is sorry if she is difficult". I tell her it is fine and she is in charge. I keep praising and encouraging. In the meantime, feels good to have a plan in place and I am enjoying each moment.

And it continues…I gave Ron more guidance, and he gave me another update some time later.

Thanks for the email. Everything has been going well with just a few hiccups. Very much working on keeping that emotional connection with my wife. Lots of communication and talking. I was at work on friday and got a text from her "OMG he just called me". So they chatted on the phone (first time) and my wife texted me it went well and she felt "giddy".

So last night my wife and I (we were kidless for the night) face timed with the gentleman. Turns out he won't be able to make it [...] until late December [...]. Seeing my wife and us is pretty much the reason for his visit.

Anyhow, we/they chatted for about 2 hours. The last hour or so got sexy. How sexy? Well lets put it this way. We all talked while my wife and I made love. He complimented her on how hot and beautiful she was the entire time and how he could not wait to see her again. He really likes the couple and him dynamics and was very sexy and open about what he liked.

A bit of background on last night. I had my wife wiggle out of her pants and touched her as they talked. That was mistake number one because I did not ask her if she wanted to do that. I sort of did but I guess there was not enough communication there. LESSON LEARNED. COMMUNICATE AND ASK even if she seems to want too in the moment. SHE HAS TO BE IN CHARGE, in control.

Eventually she took off all her clothes by herself and it got real steamy. My sweet little wife was WHITE HOT, wet and orgasmed at least 3 times. I asked her to tell him she wanted to fuck him (mistake) but as she came she told him that. She had a super hard orgasm.

So he requested a peak at her body and she complied pointing the phone at herself. He also saw a full penetration shot as well as her fingers on herself and a quick view of her ass. We were all in the moment. It was super fun and everyone had a great time. We all talked alot as it cooled down and then heated up again. Total comfort in the conversation between the 3 of us.

Later I laid on the bed away from her as he showed her his hard cock and her eyes were big as saucers. "That is nice" and "very impressive" and "oh I like that alot" are some of the things she said. I did not watch her phone but kept looking at my gorgeous wife enjoying his show. We talked about alot of stuff, sexual and otherwise and it just seemed to flow.

After this was over she and I went and grabbed a quick burger. I could tell that something was amiss. She said that she felt I sort of pushed her to show him her and she felt she was not in control of the situation. My goodness she was having such a good time. I would say that I listened to her and apologized and assured her that I would do better. She was not pissed but somewhat quiet.

When we woke up her sparkle in her eyes was gone. I apologized again and since I had read your email I told her we had 2 new phrases that I would ask her before I would do anything.

1. Is this something you would choose to do? and
2. Would it be ok if _______

That seemed to make her feel better. I also texted him to tell him that I sort of felt bad that I put pressure on her. He said no problem we can slow down and that "she sets the pace". We seem to be connected again after a bit of a hiccup this morning. She told me to just "encourage the process".

I kept remembering your warmwife article and was supportive and positive and encouraging. This evening I dropped her off at a small [...] event sponsored by [...] and she seemed much better on the drive over there. In fact she was fanning herself at his texts that they have been sending today. And smiling again. [...]

She has been doing her due diligence in making sure he is safe and legit. The only problem is that he has apparently lied to her about his age. He is actually [...]. I dont know if that is a big deal or not. This is really new to both of us. And he likes the fact that we want a connection with him. I will send you another email in a day or 2 and let you know what is up.

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