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Emojis aside, I got permission to share this pretty powerful story of a recent client of mine.

He and his wife were pretty involved in the cuckolding lifestyle for quite some time. This was until 2014 when they had to stop due to some serious health problems his wife had run into. Luckily, they were able to get those health problems resolved. But, his wife wasn’t the same after, physically or mentally.

This impacted their sex life, and they went on a very long hiatus regarding their cuckolding escapades.

As I’m sure every man who is reading this can imagine, it was a difficult transition to make for both of them. They had made cuckolding an integral part of their relationship together, and it worked for them. So to just have all that taken away with no end in sight…well, it’s not exactly an easy situation to deal with or accept.

The husband was having an especially hard time dealing with the halt in cuckolding, especially because his wife hadn’t ever officially put out that they were going to definitively abandon the lifestyle. This gave him a bit of hope that they would one day be able to relive their glory days.

So he tried to be supportive and understanding of his wife, and he also tried to get them back into the swing of things. But, no matter what he tried, it failed. She just wasn’t open to his attempts for one reason after another.

 

Things Took A Turn For The Worse

After awhile, the rejection started to get to him. This led him to feel pretty frustrated (whether you think he was right or wrong for feeling this way, his feelings were real), and this in turn led to him mishandling the situation. Here’s how he describes it:

“I told her I might as well go off and find a woman who will cuckold me if she won’t.  I have made up stories of women at work being interested in cuckolding their husbands.  I have instantly regretted saying these things. I put it down to my frustration needing to be expressed – needing to be let out somehow – so I attack what I see to be the cause of that frustration – my lovely wife.  Utterly ridiculous and it is a characteristic of my personality I truly hate.”

On a side note, his willingness to not only be aware of but openly admit his mistakes is admirable.

Anyway, as you can imagine, things just got worse, culminating in them actually getting extremely close to ending their marriage.

Thankfully, they didn’t and chose to remain together. However, things weren’t exactly resolved on a core level. In order to try and solve the conflicts around cuckolding, the husband took a three month vow that he wouldn’t bring up his fantasy at all, and that’s where our story begins. Below are the screenshots of an email he sent me describing what happened after he completed the first month of his vow.

Sensitive and personal information has been redacted, and I’ve underscored some relevant parts in red.

 

“And She Flatly Stated No, Never…”

 

A Seemingly Hopeless Situation

So, at first glance, this situation might seem pretty hopeless. After all, she had said (or implied) the word “never” no less than 3 times and objected in numerous other ways, he had tried several different approaches, and in the end even he who knew his wife best felt the situation wasn’t going to be recoverable. And keep in mind all this is after the recent near marriage-ending blowout they had.

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